my baby boy

[tinymommy]

I am due in September. Thank you guys for the nice replies. I am leaning towards the names Noah and Isaeh. I just really like them. My dad is going to actually get me an apartment, under his name. He makes pretty decent money. Anyways.. thanks again. i love him so much!!

[Disco Lemonade]

When he get a bit older and can see light, don’t forget to play the flash light game with him. Turn off the lights and find the head and shine some light at him, then move it and you will see that he follows it.
Play too much and he will get irritated and give you a kick – OK, ok, I will stop now
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Michael

Awwwwwwww

[Mikey_BKK]

tinymommy,
Give your daddy lot’s of hugs for helping you, he’ll like that. I am what Cay describes as a ‘softy’ so I love (ok, ok, melt...) when my daughter does it
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Hate to sound like your dad but as a dad… I can’t help pointing out that your education must go on somehow. What’s your thought about that? You and your parents friends and your neighbours don’t live in a part of the city where kids finish school at the age of 15. You will most likely feel the difference in education and knowledge in a couple of years time and it won’t be a good feeling
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Are you going to take a year off and then go back?
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Michael
Idea’s Dad

[H.Starr]

Back up. You're THIRTEEN and your PARENTS are getting you an APARTMENT to live ALONE and raise a baby ALONE????

Sorry, I think this is officially the WORST idea anyone has ever had.

[KayLady]

I agree with H. Starr - tinymommy, your dad needs to realize that his job is not over! You have not been fully raised just because you are having a baby. You are going to need a lot of help, live-in help. With your own life as well as the baby's.

[tinymommy]

My dad wanted me to live with him, but he lives about 1 1/2 hours away... so... he is getting me and my boyfriend an apartment, i think it is nice of him. it's only 10 minutes away from my moms and about 15 from the hospital i go to. and about 20 from my school. as faras school goes my dad spoke to my principle and they are letting me attend half of the day after i have my son. so i will go from 8-11:30. they have done this for other girls in my school who have had babies.

[H.Starr]

15 minutes from the hospital. So....how long of a walk is that? Since you can't drive, obviously. How will you get there when you go into labor?

Living alone with this baby is going to be the biggest wake up call of your life. I'm not positive, but I think you can still give him up for adoption at any age.

For his sake, its the ONLY good idea.

[kateambers123]

H.Starr stop being so bitter. Let the girl learn on her own.

[freckles]

You are not alone on this one HStarr. I really don't think it is a good idea for tinymommy to be on her own. I dont think apartment management would even approve this anyway.

[H.Starr]

kateamber, the life of a baby is NOT something to just let a little girl "learn on her own" with. Its not about HER. Its about that poor baby.
If she had ever made it to high school, she could have taken Home Ec and "learned on her own" with one of those life-like little dolls they send home with you for a weekend. NOT with an actual living baby.
Her parents are not going about any of this in the right way. Only that baby is going to pay. He will suffer endlessly because of this little girl's ignorance, and her parents even worse ignorance.