We weren't exactly sure if a board about miscarriage would be more appropriate under TTC or Pregnancy. If you had a hard time finding the board under TTC, please let us know.
We hope this forum will be a place where women can get support and understanding after experiencing a miscarriage.
I didn’t even know there was a board for miscarriage; it would have been really nice a few months ago when I had on. It was in September that I had one. I had a really hard time with it and still have a hard time talking about it. Is there anyone out there that still has a hard time with it?
It takes time to get over a loss like this. The first year I didn't really talk about it at all. It would just hit me out of the blue, and I'd be sad, but the support of my husband and the family and friends around me I got through it and so will you. Just take it one day at a time, and remember that life goes on.
"Our best successes often come after our greatest disappointments" -Henry Ward Beecher
cochies, I am so sorry you had a miscarriage and are still having a hard time!!! I have had 7 miscarriages. 1 was at 8 wks the other were earlier than that. Even though they may have been early I have had an extremely hard time. I really didn't want to talk about them. I told 1 friend of mine but sometimes I didn't feel the support I needed. I see a new OBY tomorrow to see what they can find out. I have gone thru severe depression and anxiety and for a while I felt like a walking zombie, all of which effected other people negatively.The way other peope have taken it is also upsetting. It is so ridiculous I don't want to get into it.
I guess I was ready to talk about it all and needed some where to reach out, and I chose to look on this sight and signed up. I hope this will help you in some way, I know the pain can run deep for along time.
believe it or not it does kill you when you have a miscarriage. i had my 1st one about 6 months ago.. it was extremely hard i lost the baby at 7 weeks but didnt know until i was 3 months along. they doctors said that since my blood type was rh negative it reflected on the baby and killed it. it was awful you know its not your fault but deep down you wished that you werent so werid. it just didnt end there after the horrible miscarriage i had to go in for d&c surgery to get everything out. i hated it i just wanted it to end!! but you know after that horrible experience i am now pregnant again with my 2nd. there is hope !!!
I think this board is perfect where it is. I recently psoted and NEVER would have found it if I had to look under TTC.
I think it is something to keep right out there in the public eye so that everyone knows it happens and they are not alone.
The responses I get here, as well as some from my doctor really helped take me from that feeling sorry for myself place.
I just had a miscarriage almost three weeks ago && i'm married && me && my husband is taking it real hard..any advice,it would help.&& we are ttc but a lil nervous of loosing another one
Hi. I had a premature birth at 22 weeks my identical twin boys died shortly after they were born. That was 10 years ago. Time does dull the pain, so you all just need to hang in there. Listen to your doctor and NEVER give up. I had a son 14 months and 1 week after my twins and another boy nearly 3 years after that. I still think of my twins and cry every now and then, but you do eventually heal. Just know that you are not alone and there are more of us out there than you will ever know.