drewsmana I do agree whole heartedly with you. I too feel some women get a bit carried away with being prego. Thank You
I agree also. people do get carried away. my fiance and I are both musicians and while I play classical guitar and some piano he has a blues band ( he does cover some blues and classic rock but it's mostly his music) and frequently plays in bars. I don't often go to the bars to see him cause I hate being sober around a bunch of drunks but on occasions when I do i feel i need to wear one of those sandwich signs saying I'm listening not drinking. Serioiusly, just because I'm in a bar doesn't mean I'm there to get drunk so save the dirty looks. Also we now have a smoke free state so I'm not exposing my child to any teretogens. I will on occasion have a glass of wine or a beer but never more than one and not even close to being everyday. When I go to the bar to hear my fiance play though I always drink juice or water. Alcohal is liquid courage and I don't want to encourage any one to approach me to tell me how bad a person I am.