Please join us on trying TTC for Dec/Jan

[mumof2grls]

excited-your dreams are tooooo funny I had a whacked dream last night too! some guy came to my front door and told me that I had actually failed every course in highschool and that i need to redo highschool and that i had to give back my diploma...so I was crying looking for it and when I found it it was a big plack of gold, that said on the front YOU GRADUATED and I was begging him that I loved it and wanted to keep it LMAO!! and I told him I had 2 kids now and couldnt redo highschool, it was insane!!!!! so Im with you there girl!

as for you STUPID af, it aint over till she shows her wicked face and when and IF she does..think of it like being your FRESH new cycle! BUT UNTIL THEN NO AF VIBES FOR YOU

[Kerisweetpea]

busy night and busy morning!!!

YAY!! mandi!!!! im so excited for you!!! thats the best news EVER!!!! your due date is only 5 days after mine!our babies will be about the same age! that would be crazy if we went into labor at the same time!!

mum- start BDing!!!! you go and get some!!

tori- yeah people think im crazy too when i say i hate cheese cake!! they look at me like "really?" i just want to punch 'em!!! my DH has gotten used to it cause he always gets an extra piece then so he likes it when i dont like something! lol!
im afraid of turning 30 i think its gonna be scary! my hubby dont seem to care but im pretty sure im gonna be locked in my room for my 30th! lol! i hope that ***** doesnt show up!!! thats funny you say you Dh thinks he has super sperm cause thats exactly what my DH says! LOL!!! damn men! HAHA i had a dream last night that i went skinny dipping!! HAHA then i got caught by the police!! WTF???

tara- im was just in the same situation! my friends wedding is in july!! my hubby and i was supposed to be in it, we just told them that we were TTC and that nobody knew so please dont tell anyone. but we just thought they should know so they could find someone to replace us or make it work to were it wouldnt matter if we werent there! they understood. and we arent in the wedding now. so maybe just tell them not to say anything but you wanted them to know and to wait till the last minute to order the dress if you still want to be in it. or if you dont just tell them that you dont think you will be able to be in there wedding? idk thats just my thought????

so today i feel like crap!! i thought for sure this morning i was gonna pee myself if i moved! i had to pee that bad!!! i guess im gonna have to start peeing in the middle of the night! now i just feel REALLY nauseous! and i just cant seem to kick this tired feeling!
last night i found out one of my friends is pregnant again this will be her 3rd and she is due Sept.30! so many people due around my date! YAY!!! so im gonna go lay on the couch for a little while until Caleb finds out. so i will talk to you all later.........

Much Baby Dust!!!!!!

[taraken]

All your dreams are hilarious. I don't usually remember mine. I am starting to wish I did. As for the wedding....your lucky. The day she asked me to be in hers, I said I might be pregnant then and I totally understood if she would prefer not to have to worry about it. She is a great friend and my oldest friend. Her reaction was, I don't care as long as you are with me. Which I think is sooo sweet. But it makes it hard for me to be a squeeky wheel, but I don't want to delay TTC. And since she knows very little about pregnancy, she doesn't get the maternity clothes are very different then bigger sizes, that docs don't want you to travel, etc. I guess I will try to be open with her this weekend, maybe even tell her we are TTC now. That way I am totally honest. My DH doesn't want anyone (but you guys I guess) to know we are trying yet. He is very private about it... I hate going against his wishes, so I am torn.

[APEMBERTON]

HAPPY FRIDAY EVERYBODY!!!

Mandi- WAHOOO!!!! I am so EXCITED for you!! That is GREAT news!!!! Sept 28th!!!! So when are y'all going to tell family/friends???

Tori-AF better stay the H*LL away from you!!! I am still doing the NO AF dance/jig for you!!! When will you test again?? Oh & the wedding plans are still the same( All we have to do is go get the liscense & plan a day so most people can come & then head to the courthouse) .lol. & I am excited b/c we finally got the baby shower stuff we ordered off the net..so all we have to do is get the other few things to match & then basically wait for March 12th to get here so we can start preparing(sp?) the favors & food & we will be done!!! I am so excited & so is she!!!

Keri-I am sorry you are tired & not feeling great, but remember it is FRIDAY so maybe it will get better!!!!

mom- where are you at??

edwards- where are you???

mum- haha..sorry about your head , but it made me laugh thinking about how many times I have done that & felt like a complete REJECT.LMAO!!! I laugh with you.. not at you!! YAY you will be "O-ing" soon!!! GET BUSY PEOPLE!!! LOL!! I am REALLY glad the tests seem to be working!!! I want to get some , but I am waiting until after my doctor app.!!! Oh & I think I am on CD 7!! I will check my ticker after I get through typing this!!!

tara- HUMMMM!!! Well I think I responded on the other thread about the wedding thing , but I doubt I was alot of help!lol! I know you don't want to tell her you are TTC ,b/c we aren't either, but it may be your only option!! Did you tell DH why you need to tell her!! Maybe when you talk to her you could tell her y'all are thinking about maybe trying a little sooner , but haven't decided so maybe she can wait on the dresses or choose someone else!! Good Luck whatever you decide b/c I know it is hard trying to not drink & stuff without letting people know you are TTC!!!

[Kerisweetpea]

well tara maybe if you must be in the wedding then just tell her that you are TTC and that if you could hold off on getting your dress, then when you get pregnant you can get a maternity dress, and maybe try to work something out about you standing up there the whole time! cause if you are more then say 6 months along your not gonna be able to stand the whole time! trust me! so maybe at least she will work with you on that?? but i would still talk to her and let her know..... and i dont blame you on not wanting to delay your ttc! i wouldnt either!




~*Keri*~

[APEMBERTON]

Oh & update on me~~
I am on CD 7!! Wahoo!!! 1 week & 5 days until my doctor appt. !!! Wahoo agin!! I have had a HORRIBLE headache for the last 3 days , but I am trying to not complain about it or let it bother me!! Also the last few days I haven't felt good at night at all!! Who knows though!! So I am trying my HARDEST to stay positive about TTC , but I am not!!! I am usually a VERY positive person , but lately I have let everything get to me & I HATE myself b/c of it!! I don't like negative people so I HATE that I am feeling like this right now!!! I normally don't let things bother me , but I can tell my attitude isn't like normal & it makes me so sad!! I don't even want to be around anyone!! Everyone at work irritates me & even my family!! I LOVE spending time w/ his family & mine, but lately I don't even want to see any of them!!! Like we are going out of town w/ his grandparents(who are basically like his parents b/c his mom was 18 when she had him & his dad pretended he didn't exist until he was a teen) tomorrow around lunch & I don't even want to go & normaly I would love to!! Now granted we wanted to go later on so we could sleep late, but they want to go for lunch so no sleeping late for us!!! Anyways I feel like a HORRIBLE person & I don't want to even be around me!!!

[APEMBERTON]

ps/ Sorry for the rant I am just so mad at myself & upset about TTC not going well so I am having a hard week!! I promise I will be better next week!!!

[mumof2grls]

APEMBERTON-RANT RANT RANT AWAY!!! thats what we are here for!!! LOTS OF HUGS AND POSITIVE VIBES!!!! hang in there your time is coming! xoxoxoxox

[excited4mommyhood]

Amanda - I'm so sorry you're feeling that way; it's terrible to feel so badly that you don't want to spend time with people that you care about. My hubby gets that way kinda often, not because of TTC, but because he truly HATES his job and while there are several SURE opportunities "down the road", he feels like it's too long of a wait. He's pretty mellow usually, and when he gets down on himself, he kinda withdraws, and it's sad So I kinda get how you feel. I'm glad you rant to us though, because you shouldn't keep your emotions bottled up (like DH does)...only leads to more emotions! On a few brighter notes: your sis's shower is gonna be a blast and YOU'RE GETTING MARRIED!!!!! My fingers and toes and hair and wrists and ankles and elbows and knees are crossed for your TTC efforts! And thank you for keeping your AF chant and jig going -- the ***** isn't here yet (if she doesn't show, I'll test tomorrow I think)

Keri - I already know that on MY 30th, I'm going to be working, even though it's NEXT april (an event has already been planned for that day, and if I still work here, as I'm sure I will, I will be working from about 7:30 am until about 3:00 pm - UGH!) So I won't be able to lock myself in a room - oh well

Tara - My hubby doesn't want anyone to know we're TTC either, but he didn't tell me that until AFTER I told my best friend (who is also my co-worker). So then I kinda had to lie to her, and say that we're not ACTUALLY trying, but thinking about WHEN we will, blah blah blah...it's all a big pain in the ass. But if your friend cares about you, as I'm sure she does, she'll understand. Just let her know that you could be pregnant tomorrow, or you could be pregnant in a year, but pregnancy is defintely on the horizon for you and DH. That's kinda telling her w/o letting her know that you and DH are BDing with a purpose!

Much luck, love and babydust, ladies!

~ * ~ Tori ~ * ~

[APEMBERTON]

Thanks mum!!! I wish someone else knew around here besides SO b/c it would be nice to get a hug from somebody else!! I love him to to death & he tries his hardest to be understanding, but he doesn't understand how bad it hurts me!!! So thanks!!!
Oh & I was wondering what type of test did you get off ebay I was looking at them right now, just so I have an idea so in a few weeks I'll know what I want to order!!! Thanks!!!!