OK deep breath. i would like to get Real opinions and maybe ideas on how to balance this what seems to me a very complicated issue.


History: Me Dad 11 year old and 2 week old me and my x have a daughter and me and my fiancee have a newborn daughter. Fiancee has 3 boys with x and newborn with me.
Issue: we (fiancee and I with Baby) live in south Florida and her x and 3 children (ages 15, 13, 3) live in Georgia about 9 hours away. Neither my x or hers will move we have thought of relocating to a more central location for both of us to ease the burden of visitation equally. we have even thought of splitting up so she can move up to GA so shes closer to her boys and work out visitation between us. What would you do?