My DH and DD take showers together all the time ( she just turned four), but he wears swim trunks and she wears her bikini and swim goggles!!!!!! It is too cute!
I shower with my 3 year old son, and so does my hubby. If at any time, any of us become uncomfortable with this, then we'll stop, but I don't think there's anything wrong or weird about it at all. My son loves taking showers with us
Lauren Eileen ~ Wife to Adam, Mama to Anthony
My older daughter is four now, and my husband stopped showering with her last year, just because he started to feel weird about it. He still gets dressed and stuff in front of her, and she still sees him naked, but she understands that he's different because he's a boy. (Although, when she was asked last week what the difference between boys and girls was, and she said that girls wear cute panties, and boys wear yucky grey ones :P). Oh, and he still gives both the girls baths, but my youngest daughter does NOT shower with him at all.. she's the kind of child that would just grab and pull. No thanks!
I shower with both of my sons (4 and 2) and we see nothing wrong with it. My husband and I both would get in the shower with our oldest when he was a baby, then when our second came along, it was easiest for me to put the oldest in the shower with me so he didn't bother the baby. Now two years later I do it when we're in a rush, or when I don't want to leave the alone while I'm in the shower.
I shower with my sons if we are in a rush. Well let me say my son, lol my 6yr old don't anymore becuase he's at that age where he doesn't want to share a shower and wants to do things by himself. But if i'm in a rush i will have my 3yr old in the shower with me.