ok my son's father and i have been separated for four and a half months now!!! when me and his daddy were together i was at home with him all day everyday. and i just recently started working like 4 to 5 days a week and i have to get him on my days off cause i work evenings. day care is out of the question. so im just curious me getting him for like a night and then having to send him back to his dad's the next day!! is that hurting him emotionally or am i setting my self up for problems in the future??? cause belive me i would like to stay at home!! and my son is 4 and a half!!