I am having a tug of war with myself. My husband and I have a son who will be 10 on 5/20 and we have been talking about wanting a second child. I am 34 and I only think about the worst of things that could happen. Am I at an age that pregnancy could be harmful? Will my son and a new baby have a close relationship? Can I afford childcare? I have always felt incomplete without 2 kids, but I never thought I would be talking about having another one in my mid 30's and surely not when our son was 10. Sure we would have had another child sooner had things worked out the way we planned. Any advice would be appreciated! Thank you.