My husband and I have 2 little boys. they were both conceived on our first month trying with no problems. now we want to try one more time for a girl and we are not haing any luck.

i know that only having been activley trying for 2 months with no results shouldn't be such a downer but it is exspecially with both of our other children being so easy to concieve.

i am really worried that something may be wrong with my hubby or myself. since after the birth of our second son in march of last year (i like my kids close) we have never used anything besides nursing for birthcontroll since my second was born. my son weaned himself early and the doc said i was really lucky to not get pregnant when he was 8 months and i got my first period since having him (cause you do not know when that will be so you can not try to avoid ovulation week).

but now i am thinking it had nothing to do with luck. my hubby had testicular surgery for a hydrocell in may of 2011, and they diagnosed him with double spermicelles (sp?) but said since he already has 2 kids it's not a big deal (they can make you infertile, and he sees military docs