I am a mom of two kiddos. My girl is 4 and my boy is 2.5 years old. Fun times...mostly. We are dealing with terrible tantrums for my 2 year old son so that has been challenging..since my daughter never went through this phase--I am sure it will come in its own time though.
After some online searching I found this book "Talking to toddlers" and it has helped me and my son work through his tantrums. It helped me learn how to "talk to my toddler" and has actually diffused his tantrums...not 100% of course but much much more tolerable! I am excited because I have been using the same techniques on my 4 year old and love the results.
I can't promise anything but thought I would share!
Good luck to all you mommas dealing with your unruly toddlers! Here is the link below!