So my hubby and me were preggers aug of 11 and lost the baby at 11 weeks. We have waited the correct time to start again. I was told to follow my ovulation , which I am doing, but it seems so organized and not spontaneous and romantic. For example, this week is high fertility for me. So all day long I just think about him getting home from work and getting the job done , so to speak lol. If we don't have sex once a day during my fertile week I feel like we are not trying as hard as we should. Does anyone else feel this way. Wish there was a way to make it more romantic =)