I have a son who is 3 and a son who is 17 months, and I have been thinking about trying for another one. I would so love to have a girl, but would be happy with a healthy boy or girl. I don't know what to do because my husband says he finished. Some people tell me to wait until my youngest son is a little older because I stress out so much over everything. I don't know what to do, we also have a small house. I hate even thinking about it, but I am a planner. I don't know what to do, I am not even sure if I can handle three children because I am exhausted all the time. I am also afraid as the boys get older, I may not want anymore. I don't know.