My wife and I have a great relationship. That includes our only child, a 10 year old boy. We are very hands on and he is the center of everything we do. I have noticed over the past year or so that he is very concerened about my well being. more so then he is of mom. If she raises her voice at me, he will quickly come to my defense. He is overly concerend about my happiness and that I won't get deprtessed or sad. Taking every opportunity to give me kisses, hugs or telling me how much he loves me as a son. He is very concerend about my wellbeing. Although there are no problems in our relationship. I am ofcourse very appreciative of his love and give it in return very often. I do remind him on occasssion that he need not worry. He is very cocnerend about keeping things calm and everybody happy. Even though he does not need to be worried. Why is that?
Last edited by Christian1971; 07-27-2011 at 02:26 AM.
You must be happy and are fortunate enough that you have got son like this. In today's world its difficult to find such kind of sons. You need to take this in a positive way. I think as the time passes by he might not be over protected, over caring and do just what you are expecting from him.
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My 6 year old is the same way when my wife scolds me in front him. You 2 must have a real deep connection as myself and my boy do. Kids don't like the tension between 2 parents when they dont see eye to eye.
Its really great bond between you and your son. even I feel same thing between me and my daughter. So dont worry about your son, whatever he is doing just because of you and about you. infact now a day you are just the center point of his life and its worth it about you.