I used to be a very active member of this community when I was TTC #1. It took us 13 months to get an BFP and I found this to be a great support system. My son is now 10 months old and still bfing. We planned on starting to try for our second in August and I have my check up with the obgyn to get the go ahead in July.
AF arrive for the first time since Dec 2009 today. Starting to TTC again is starting to feel so real. I can't believe it is almost time to start this journey again.
I am starting to get nervous...what if it happens right away and our kiddos are only 20 months apart, but what if it takes a year again (that was the hardest year of my life..)....which is why we don't want to delay trying. I am so torn with mixed emotions now....is this normal? With our first I knew I wanted to try...I knew we wanted a baby asap. I have this feeling of, I know I want another and I want them to be close in age...but I am scared. Will I be a good mom to both? Will I be on bed rest for a month because I pre-e again?
Again...are these feelings normal?
Sound like the same questions and fears I have... so I hope they are normal feelings.
Married on June 6/09
DD born Apr 9/10
TTC for #2