Another no sex for..ever?

[n0810k]

Hi Jimmy!
I see it has been a while since this thread was discussed, but I am curious about how things turned our for you and your family? I found your story heartbreaking to read... a truly difficult situation!

[n0810k]

Hi Jimmy!
I see it has been a while since this thread was discussed, but I am curious about how things turned our for you and your family? I found your story heartbreaking to read... a truly difficult situation!

[ComEd]

Why not seek for advice.... We cant make it through all the HANDS, ya know?

[popelm]

But don't do it often, she'll get use to it...lol

[jimmy11]

Hi all,

I thought I would post back to tell all about where I am at with this. Last year my wife made an effort to be more intimate........... well at least in frequency. problem was she didnt really connect with me much and then when we had sex she would actually abuse me! if not that its complaining that I take too long after 2 mins!

It got a little better through this year (abusing seemed to stop after a few times I just stopped and walked out of the room). So basically I am up to a stage where she obviously doesnt like it, frequency is 1/mth if lucky, but wont let me do any foreplay whatsoever, doesnt try to be sexy at all.

Have realised that when she said she couldnt be intimate with me anymore two Xmas's ago it has stuffed my headspace. Combined with the fact that my wife isnt turned on by me, I cant get her off and she wont let me do anything but stick it in her...well I dont feel like such a man anymore...

I'm actually past the timeframe I gave myself to quit this marriage. That was my 10th wedding aniversary a month ago. Wasnt that spectacular, not... She booked flights to her sis house in another state that weekend "forgeting" it was our aniversary. Doesnt try to do anything special before leaving and when she gets back and didnt even get me anything. Meanwhile I gave her sexy underwear, a gift card and had booked a suprise weekend away together that I had to cancel cause of the trip she booked without telling me.

Im over this, but too much financial issues if I leave and cant get up courage to leave my kids. Still hope for me, but maybe Xmas deadline seriously...

[jimmy11]

Oh yes also I know i can pressure her too much and I know thats no good, but its only cause Im so down with all this.

Anyway any nice women want a great man In Australia well I maybe available very soon!

[Randall123]

Great story, so sorry it is not fiction, life is so short, we humans simply cannot live without the support of our mates, your wife is getting that support from you in the ways she needs it, you are not, she knows it and does not care. If you ended the marriage (that she already walked out on), she would still have financial support and a father for her children, but without the constant drone of a lonely, desperate, pitiful whiner. You have the courage to stay in a relationship without mutual benefit, do you have the courage to end it?...maybe that lack of courage keeps you and your wife in a state of purgatory. I honestly think you will look back on this time wondering why you wasted so much time.....when you could just as easily spent those precious moments with the love of your life...