addys_mum thread

[addys_mum]

I am aware that I sent a pretty rude post to you all and I think that is because......I really did try to seek advice from some of you, for what I feel is a pretty big issue. See my thread "Child Molestation." And I have also asked of other issues also, and I got two responses. Where as with everyone else, you guys just offer up free advice like you do it for a profession...but no, no, no not with me. And you know, I think that is pretty wrong of you.. So you don't like a lot of my posts because I will say, or in this case type exactly what I am thinking, but is that reason enough not to help me when I don't know what to do and want some help from fellow mothers? I think that is just, not cool. You all say that I am unstable, and you know, I got pregnant young, yes that is what I wanted at the time, to be a mom, to love someone and be loved unconditionally and to help my bf know that we were meant to be (don't need any lectures, thank you.) But seriously, just read my post I stated earlier and tell me why no one would help me or just help me now, I am under so much stress and anxioty over this mess and I Just want you all to treat me like you would anyone else. I have seen so many other 'rude' posts on here, and yet I bet if you ask anyone on the site who they most dislike, it would be me.

[relocatednyc]

Hey, I just joined a few days ago. Sent you a post on your situation.
Hope things get better.
You can private message me on here any time if you want.

[lovin3]

Addys_mum- First off, thank you for taking the time to say what was on your mind. I have read a couple of your posts in the past- this "child molestation" post and one or two others about the situation with your boyfriend. I've also come to the conclusion that you've had some pretty disrespectful posts in the eyes of others from some of the conversations on here. I'm sorry that you haven't gotten all of the help that you've been looking for. As for me, I have a lifestyle completely different from your own. A couple of posts I did not respond to because I didn't have anything "constructive" to say. Personally, I won't respond to something if I can't respect your right to make choices that I don't agree with. Case in point- a lot of people criticize or do not acknowledge when War_Eagle responds to something controversial because of his distinct opinion. Also, while this forum is about sharing information and seeking advice from other parents, everyone must take care in what they ask and how they use the advice they are given, because we are not professionals- not professional pediatricains or child development educators or psychologists or counselors. Maybe you could use the help of a counselor in dealing with the seriousness of all of the issues with your boyfriend. I wish you well and hope that things will work out for you. Please continue to post and seek advice. I hope that something I've said has helped shed a little light on why you haven't received as much support as you were hoping for...