My husband thinks that I should be over my miscarriage already, but Im not I can't watch a tv show that has babys in it without starting to cry. I can deal with my pregnant friends but when it comes down to accualy seeing a baby I break and I seem to push myself to deal with it and watch the tv shows and see my friends new babys. I know im probably in a depression but like most people out there I cant afford to go to a doctor, So I turn to people I don't know in hopes that some how talking to someone who does not know me will help. I realy want to try again but I am not sure if trying now when im in the state im in would hurt me or help me all I know is I want a baby so bad and don't know why I had this miscarriage I had 2 successful pregnancy's by accident but when I planned on a pregnancy I lost it, Im just so lost and have no where else to turn
First off I am so sorry for your loss. * Hugs*
Second, there is no set amount of time any woman should be given to deal with a miscarriage. People deal with things differently. I am sorry you are having such a hard time with it. We have been TTC for a while & I had a miscarriage early on, so I know how hard it can be. I promise in time it will get better, but in the meantime to try focus on the good things like your 2 other precious children.
As it turned out when I posted that I was pregnant I just found out on the 10th my birthday and today is the start of another miscarriage. Surprise Pregnancy followed by another miscarriage I go back to the doctor monday for them to check my HgC levels since the ultra sound only showed a g-sac. Im prettu.y sure im miscarring but I also have been bleeding for the past 3 weeks and 2 days and passing small clots the whole time so I can not be positive Has anyone had this happen to them it seems as if as soon as I gotten pregnant I started bleeding
Well, as a friendly advice and I given this advice to others, I knew someone long ago and she told me she 5 miscarriages and after that she had healthy pregnancy and she has 3 grown healthy sons. she was within age I would say 30 years older than me and just like that she told me that story.
You might not have the same destiny with 5 miscarriages, I don't know what the future holds for you, I don't know if you believe in anything, In my belief let it be the Lords Will and not our Own Will and trust only in the Lord.
I can tell you this it not your fault when you have a miscarriage or anyone around you.
My wife and I have had one miscarriage...it is odd how people think you should "be over it". If you are a kind of person who believes life starts in the womb, it's amazing to think you'd ever completely get over it. Know that you aren't alone, and if you truly want to try to conceive yourself, the best place to start would be with a doctor who could look you over and make sure there aren't any major concerns that need to be taken care of.
Wow, you sound just like me. I suffered a miscarriage in august and all I can think about is trying again. Unfortunatly my husband doesn't feel the same way. We have two kids already and he feels that we can be done having kids now. It is very hard for me to be around babies and a family member is pregnant and due right around Christmas. Don't feel alone because there people out there who understand how you feel. Sometimes it does help to talk to strangers who have gone through the same thing.
I'm still grieving over the loss of our little girl Faith born Oct 28, 2010 at 19 weeks. I thought it would be eaiser but it seems to me I think about her more and more and wish I knew why why she did not surive. We got no answeres after waiting for 6 weeks after her passing. I think that is the hardest thing going through this and not bringing her home and then wondering if I should ever try again. WOndering if I did anything wrong to hurt her which I never smoked, and I followed the book. Luckily we have two little girls but was wanting another girl. I pray it will get eaiser everyday and just knowing she is in Heaven with Jesus helps alot. Praying for you all. christin