Our situation was a little different both our children were planned and with our first it took us a year to conceive after every month of not getting pregnant I grew more and more anxious and frustrated. When we found out we were pregnant we were ecstatic! And then the vomiting started...I had severe hyper emisis (which means you puke without ceasing) I lost 20 lbs in less than two weeks I had to be hospitalized often for IV therapy, my hair started falling out, I couldn't work couldn't eat or drinking anything and life as I knew it stopped. I went from being elated about the pregnancy to hating it! I felt so much guilt for how "ungrateful" I was being, here I had begged and pleaded with God for the last year to give us a child and now I couldn't believe this child growing inside me could make me so miserable. They finally found a medication that made it possible to control the vomiting this was at about month 6. Anyone out there experiencing this the drug is called Zofran, it's amazing. It's very expensive so my doctor tried all the other ones first but this was all that helped, I think they now make a generic version that is much less expensive. Even now when I get a really bad stomach flu I get in a panic because I'm taken back to that really hard time in my life, I swear I have post traumatic stress disorder.