Baby shower mis understanding?

[Sept29th]

so i'm entering my last month and my baby shower put on by my husbands family is tonight and my husband decides to text my sister in law (my brothers wife) and tell her that if she doesnt want to come that she doesnt have to and that my mom didnt want her to be left out because he didnt want her to feel dumb around his family blah blah blah, well now it's caused a big huge fight with me and him and my sister in law was all upset and now i'm crying at work, what should i do?

[bvas81]

why would she feel dumb around his family?

[craftyashley]

Keep it in perspective. It's just a baby shower. Try to stop the hemorrhaging of upset people here! Your hubby needs to take over the PR work until the shower. You act as though nothing has happened. You are pregnant and hormonal, and frankly in the last month shouldn't have to deal with all this drama.

[Sept29th]

I'm not sure why she would feel dumb, i thought she needed it you know to spend a little time with her mother and sister in law since we never get to do anything together, my husband should've stayed out of my business!! yeah i know ladies i was crying AT work yesterday and felt like the stress i was going through was putting me in labor because i was having some really bad pains all over my body it was scary!! he doesn't think i have the right to blame anything on pregnancy, he's a little in sensitive at times!! i wish he would be more understanding towards me and how i'm feelin you know it's kind of upsetting to me that he acts like i'm not in pain and i'm not emotional and all the rest i'm dealing with.

[bvas81]

wow! that must be tough! well, he doesn't have the right to tell you what you think you are feeling is crazy! when you are pregnant you have the right to "blame" what you feeling to the connection of what you are going through! He should know better! When I was preggo we had some serious family drama going on and i was always feeling sick, headaches, cramping... then once the drama boiled over... i was feeling alot better. then my pregnancy was smooth sailing.. well except when it came to the pushing two kids out! lol! have you told him how you felt about how he makes you feel? .. well your baby will be coming soon so that's great! how did the babyshower go?

[Sept29th]

Yeha i have told him but he still thinks that some of the things that are going on with me happened even before i was pregnant (DUH) no they didn't!! i was not thia emotional pre pregnant. he hurts my feelings a lot but i know it's just hormones as well, but he wont let me blame it on that, but i still do. Yeah we are both excited for the baby to come it is our first and we are having a girl so i'm even more excited about it!! the baby shower went so good i had so much fun and we got lot's of cute things and lot's of pink ha ha!! daddy loved that!!

[APEMBERTON]

Congrats On The Fun Baby Shower!!! I Am Sorry Your Hubby Is Being So Insensitive!!

[Sept29th]

Thank you, he's being better it's just about SOMEthings that he's in snesitive about. he's been so cute throught this whole pregnancy, he is the best husband ever!! he could use a little tweeking every now and then ha ha. he'll be a cute dad for sure, you know he seems kind of sad lately, he seems sad about the baby taking so long to get here what do you think it could be, could it be the baby?