Hi, I was eight weeks pregnant and went to the Dr's for discharge/spotting and found out that my baby had stopped growing. I decided not to have the d & c and I'm still waiting for it to happen. I'm not sure I made the right choice since it has been a rollercoaster of emotions waiting for it to be over but then again I'm sure it would be if I had the d & c also. I just hope that after all this waiting I don't have to have the d & c anyway. All I want to do is lay in bed I had to force myself to go to work today. Everyone says it was for the best because something was wrong but I don't feel that way. I have so much anger that I can't get out and I start crying at the littlest thing. There seem to be pregnant women everywhere and babies on tv. I'm just so sad.
im so sorry for your loss. i was 4 1/2 weeks and was waiting for my first doctor appt when i started cramping and spotting. found out today that i lost my baby and i'm devastated. we were only trying to get pregnant for a little over a month but i was so excited. i'm trying to put on a brave face but i too can't stop crying. i pray that God gives you the strength to move forward and that you will not have to have the D & C. I know in my heart He will not give us more than we can bear so I'm justing trying to stay hopeful for the future. God bless!
Hello, I had to have the d & c on Sunday. I started to miscarry and had horrible pain and had to go to the ER. I was really hoping to have a natural miscarriage but the doctor said sometimes women can't pass it on their own. I feel like I dragged it on for nothing. The Dr. also mentioned that I might have a tear in my uterus (I think when my c-section scar is) I had to wait at the hospital for a while and then they let me go home so I hope everything is alright. I need to go back in three weeks for a follow up so maybe I'll get some answers then. Sorry to hear of your loss, I hope you can start healing now.
hello im so sorry to hear about what happen to you but just know that ggod knows why he does this things i know it hurts ive had 2 miscarages at 20 weeks 5 months it was the hardest thing ive ever had to do because i had to deliver both of my baby girls just to hold them for a short while the hardest part was having to go to the mortuary to arange everything i was so sad so i know how you feel but you have to be strong i put it all in gods hands and now i found out that im a month pregnate my fellings are all twisted i also need some one to talk to im so afraid of the same thing happening again but hopefully everything is ok this time s just keep your head up and everything is going to be ok ull see
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I am very sorry for your loss! I can't imagine the pain you and your family must be feeling. I am happy to hear that you are pregnant again, think positive! I know easier said than done :-) You seem to have a lot of faith and I believe it will get you through this!
I had my my d & c July 4th and last friday it looked like I passed a little piece of tissue and today I have dark brown spotting. I have no idea if this is normal or if something is wrong. I have been waiting to hear from my doctor's office but it takes a while to get a call back. So now I'm reading everything on the internet which isn't always a good idea!
I hope all is well with you!
I am very to sorry to hear about your loss. I had a miscarriage a year ago this month. I went to the doctor at nine weeks, had an ultrasound and saw there was no heartbeat. I decided not to have a D & C as well. It only took a couple of days for the process to start. No one will be able to understand what you are going through unless they have been there. I felt the same way, how everytime i turned around there was someone either pregnant or there was a baby. Give your self time to heal and deal with what is going on. Know that you are not alone. There are people who are here for you to lean on and to give support.
Hi I'm very sorry for your loss everyone. I know what ya'll went through. I had a Miscarriage a year ago next month. I was almost 4 months and i was about to get married. My ex had cheated on me so I was moving out of the house back to my mom and dads and I couldn't lift much so I had an end table in my hands going down steps when my ex pushed me down the steps and the end table went into my belly and then i hit the wall down the steps head first. I went to the Dr. and they said the baby was ok and that i was lucky. Well everyting wasn't ok 3 days after I went to the Dr. I was sitting outside talking to my belly cause I was told the baby can hear you or something like that and when I got up I fell to the grownd in pain and my friend told me I had blood on my pants and when i looked down i passed out. I don't remember anything after that other then getting up in the hospital. When the Dr. came in and told me what happen I went home the next day and didn't leave my room other then to use the restroom. I didn't want to eat or drink anything. I didn't go around other people for a month and I still cry my eyes out till this day. The way I look at it everything happens for a reason even if we don't know what it is..... So to everyone God Bless you and live your life to the fulest.....
I know how you feel. If I see a pregnancy test commercial on the television or walk past Motherhood Maternity at the mall, I aways begin to tear up.
I wish I could offer some words of wisdom, but I need some myself. All I can say is that at least you have this online community where you can tell your story and people can offer their support to you.