Hi! I am Mai..

[mrs_yang]

Hello everyone!
I am a couple days new to this and i already love it!
I get help and advice from people already and its helping me out alot..
I am a mother of only one child, and i'm yet, still 18..=)
My Baby's name is Nathan Jay Yang. I am married to my wonderful husband, who's now 21, and loves us very much.
Not a simple life i'm living, so im hoping for the best as life gets even more confusing..
I'm planning on going to college to get a better start in life, since i've already overcome marriage and having a baby...hehe...so hopefully it will bring me and my family better things in life.
I love my husband a lot, though sometimes i get mad at him, i still love him and he knows that...so we are pretty much very very close as being a family, but my husband still have other things he likes to do, so we try to find the time for each other everyday so we wont lose feelings for each other...we like to go out and eat and walk around department stores, finding new things we need, and we love to eat good food...but we are not fat...but my husband is getting there...hopefully not me...hehe...
We live with the in-laws...wish us luck in dealing with them....
I like to stay up and watch movies with my husband when he's not working, and wake up late in the mornings....yup..that's us....we're night owls....lol..well i dont have a problem with that so i dont care what others think as long as i know i'm doing what i like and it's not affecting other people's lives..that's the only way to spend time with eachother...
i like to lay down with my husband on boring days and there's pretty much nothing to do, really, in this neighborhood...so when we have the time and money, then we like to go cruise around and see what's new...
oh..
and i love WAL-MART...i dont know why but i just do...if only there is a super-wal-mart here, i would live there...lol...but no, they are building a super-target though....
well yes, i know i talk alot...i just love joking around and talk, talk, talk...it is annoying to my husband, but he knows he misses it when i'm not there...lol..
i dont know if anybody actually reads all this, but if u did then leave me a note..and i will be ur best friend!...take care of urselves and ur lovely kids...
by the way...i love kids...especially those that are hella smart for their age..they are the funniest and cutest...and i love when they outsmart me...haha..)

♥♥Mai Xiong♥♥♥Hue Yang♥♥♥Nathan Jay Yang♥♥♥

My Baby

[gostomskiart]

Hi Mai, welcome!! Your little boy is adorable! Well, my name is Jessica, I'm 30 and this is my first pregnancy (I'm 15 weeks). So it is all new and exciting. I commend you for living with the in-laws and not going completely out of your mind!! Hang in there and I hope you find lots of answers and online buddies on this site, it has become an addiction for me! (lol).

[Jessica at Parenting.com]

Hi, Mai.

Welcome to the boards. Glad you're having a great time here.

And what a cute kid!

[1st Time Mom - Again]

Mai,

I know for a fact that you can make the in-law situation work if you are willing to make the effort. I have lived with mine for over 23 years - and I love them dearly.

It takes work on both sides. I need to bite my lip when they get overbearing with the advice and they do when I do something he doesn't agree with (MIL passed 3 years ago). We all get along by avoiding confrontation when tempers are hot and discussing things when tempers cool.

Good luck to you.