DCRoberts

[NaomiK]

I got your pm - your pms are turned off. If you can turn your pms on, I would be more than happy to reply.

[NaomiK]

So does this mean you dont want a reply? Your pms are still off... I dont understand why you would send me a pm like that and not want a reply

[H.Starr]

Its typical of someone like her. "HAHA I got to say what I want and you can't say anything back! I got the last word!" Childish. She knows she wouldn't like your response, so she doesn't want to hear it.

[dcroberts]

I wasn't looking for a reply Naomik. I saw qualities in your writing that left me with an unclear opinion on your character- so chose to go with a more positive view. There are a couple of women on this site that I don't want to receive a pm from, so it is safer to simply receive none. I am unused to hearing foul or derogatory language and certainly don't want it delivered to my inbox. The women that I am in daily contact with do not lower themselves to calling others names. They respect people for their differences of opinion and know when to agree to disagree. I can not imagine a single woman that I know acting in the flagrant childish manner exhibited at times on this forum. I cringe when certain women on here gang up on somebody and attack, and I was in the mood the other day to show them that not everyone finds them delightful.
H. Starr- you can be the pot. I'll be the kettle.

[H.Starr]

You're exactly right, CharliesMommy.

DC - I can't be the pot if my PMs are on, ready and waiting to have a lovely chat with you. Because I won't be like you, like CharliesMommy pointed out, and talk about you and then run away when you want to talk back.
And us women that you are referring to give wonderful advice...when the person is worth giving advice to! Trolls? No. Cocky little know-it-alls? No. Real people with real questions? Absolutely. And THOSE are the people who have no complaints about all of us. And if the rest (and you) do, who gives a sh.it??

[NaomiK]

First of all, I do not care what you think about my "character". I dont know what makes you think I would give a damn what you think. And if you have problems with OTHER people on this site why did you pm ME! Take it up with the people you have problems with. I dont understand why you PMED ME! Its not like you were trying to get clarification of my character or you would have let me respond.

Next, I dont know what makes you think that the women you are referring to would care to pm you in the first place. Why would they waste their energy on that? Do you really think they would pm you just to call you foul or derogatory names? I mean, really.

Dont even start talking about respecting peoples opinions and agreeing to disagree. You make NO sense! We were the ones trying to move on when you went and posted something to bring it all back up. Talk about agree to disagree.

FYI - They (and I) already know not everyone finds us "delightful" - if we gave a damn if you found us delightful we wouldnt say the things we say in the first place.

Now, turn on your pms or I can post my reply here. Thanks

[hardworkinmama]

Well said Naomi. I applaud you!

[kare.bear]

I just realized that I have no idea how to turn on my pm's or if they are already on... It's not an option in my profile. Can anyone give me hints?

[H.Starr]

Go to your 'User Profile' (link at the top of the screen) and go to your options. Its in there.

[big-mouth-burgher]

Your PM setting is always turned on when you start out. You have to go in (like Heather said above) and turn it off yourself by clicking on the box to remove the option. If your box is checked you can send and receive private messages.