all my husband wants to do.........

[michelleschwartz]

Now all my husband wants to do is have sex. I'm 7 weeks and so tired all the time, he just can't take no for an answer! What do i do? I love him but he really persists that we have sex all the time is this normal for a man to go sex crazy while you are pregnant???????????HELP

[MommaC]

YES! I don't know what it is, but my friend and I had the same experience. I guess there must be something about seeing a woman pregnant with your child that shifts these guys into overdrive. I don't know what you can do to calm him down...maybe drop some ice down his pants? prepare him a cold shower? Honestly, I think I'd sit him down (when he's not ready to jump in your pants) and try to explain how you feel. Work out a compromise--he'll do some chores so you're not so tired...he'll attack you earlier in the day when you're less exhausted...you can please him in other/quicker ways. I don't know. Good luck to you, though!

[michelleschwartz]

Thanks!!!!!! The early morning suggestion is great I'll have to try that!!!!! Any one else have any suggestions?????

[charlygould93]

i realy do not have any suggestions, but i know how you feel my husband is the same way. he told me that pregnant sex is the best sex, he said it feels different. i usally just go along with it, but if i realy dont want to do it then i give him a magazine. lol

[jenn_0629]

My husband was, and still is, a maniac for it. When my morning sickness hit me, that is when he wanted it the most. And I simply couldn't do it. He kept persisting one night during my first trimester, and I knew that if I did, I was going to get sick from the motion, but he wasn't letting it go..So, I went along with it, and I did get sick, right in the middle of things. He felt awful, after that night, he knows that when I say I can't, I really can't.

[lovin3]

If morning doesn't always work, try middle of the night. My husband knows that after my two boys are in bed, I need my sleep, and NOW! He has a better chance if he lets me sleep a couple of hours (while he watches TV or plays his computer game) and then starts cuddling up to me. He works seconds, though, so 4 days a week I've already been asleep a few hours before he gets home. He also knows that waking me up with a nice backrub can do wonders for my mood!

[tanyakrenzel]

i have the oppisite problem. My husband finds it a turn off, and I am hot blooded to begin with, and even more so now, and with all this extra emotional stuff it really hurts to get rejected every time, mine is so distant, he just wants to spend time with his friends.

[michelleschwartz]

Well ladies he is still at it. Every day he tries some thing different to get me in the sack! It's not that i don't love him, but i don't feel like we need to have sex any more, does any one understand that or am i just crazy? I really need some one's opinion on where to go from here!!

[michelleschwartz]

Thankfully he got over that stage and is now in the "let me get that" or " let me do that honey"!! Its nice to have him back to the old chad!!

[BabyChloe29]

that's good, my husband says it's different as well, he says it feels better for him and he wants to do it more, so i'm on the opposite side of the fence than you are!! but i know the feeling of being tired all the time, i'm 24 weeks on sunday, just wait until you get this far, it's better but your body is more tired than anything, have you had morning sickness at all?