Have had two miscarriages

[nursetolove]

i can completely understand how you feel. i lost a baby boy at 21 weeks and that was 4 years ago. i still havent gotten over it and we are just now trying for one. not one day goes by that i dont think about it. sounds like we all have stories like that. i'll keep you all in my prayers. please pray for us as well

[mlg96]

I am sorry for all of your losses. After trying for 4 years we tried IVF and I got pregnant on our first try. I had a very easy pregnancy, no morning sickness, always felt great. I really emjoyed being pregnant. About 3 days before my due date and 2 days before we were going to induce. I was woken up with some abdominal pain. It wasn't too bad it just felt like gas pain and that I had to go to the bathroom. It continued to be painfull so we decided to go to the hosapital. i was able to walk down to the road to meet the ambulance. They had trouble finding the baby's heartbeat so they decided to fly us out to a bigger hospital. When we got there a team of doctors met us and after doing a ultrsound they told us that we had lost our baby. We were induced and we had a stillborn baby boy. During the whole delivery I kept my eyes closed because I didn't want to see him. I wasn't sure I could handle it. I had an easy delivery but it was the hardest thing I have ever been thru. I kept wanting to hear him cry but I never did. After talking to many people I held him. It was hard but I am glad I did it. We have started to try again but so far no luck. This all happened in March 09. The main thing that has been hard is that I have unexplained infertility and it doesn't seem like the doctors are interested in finding out what is wrong. We finally had a laparoscopy to determine if I have endometriosis or scaring. The surgery went well and we found out that I have endo. My doctor seems to think that this surgery will help. We are keeping our fingers crossed.

[kuuipomikala]

I am in the same boat as you are. I had my first miscarriage in 2002 and second one last summer right after my husband left for Iraq. Well, when he came back this summer we started trying again and found out a week and a half ago that we are pregnant again and tomorrow will be 6 weeks. But, I have that feeling that something might happen and can just keep praying to GOD that it goes well for the both of us. I had a little blood/mucous yesterday when I went to have a bowel movement, but nothing since, so prayer is definitely upped. My Dr. last year told me I was too short on progesterone so the OB/GYN I work for gave me a prescription for it and I'm hoping it will help me, so hearing the one story on here with that same situation gives me definite hope.

[mygirls13]

im 27 and i have two girls, but it wasnt easy. my oldest is 5 with that pregnancy i was on bed rest the whole 9 months but she was healthy. i got prego 2 yrs later and carried til 16 weeks we lost the baby bc of xtra chormizones, i found out i was prego 2 months later i was so scared but with this one i was fine i worked and no problemsshe 2 now. last august we had a lost at 12 weeks and tried for a year. right now im 8 weeks along but im spotting and the ultra sound only show a sac nothing in it so we go back on thursday im trying to b postive but its hard...ill keep u in my thoughts i hope it turns out well for u

[C.Carter]

My Husband and I just decided to start a family. although I am concerend and do have doubts. About a year ago. I did become pregenant. We werent trying. But of course was very excited and overjoyed. 6 weeks Into the Pregenancy I had a miscarriage and it was the hardest thing that I have been through. Im worried now that I will have another when I do become pregenant. should I worry?

[melmilo22]

hi i have had two miscarriages, the first miscarriage i had to have a DNC and the second one happen on its own. It has been two years of trying to get pregnant again and it just does not seem to happen am getting very stressed, depressed and losing all hope not to sure what to do anymore. my husband and i have been seeing so many different doctors and noone is helping.

[tabrst1]

fsmurfy, I feel your pain.
I am going through the exact same experience as yourself.
First doctor's visit - Congratulations!
First Ultrasound - please come back in 3 weeks
Second Ultrasound - please see your doctor
Second Doctor's visit - there is no yolk, let's discuss your options
Cytotec - one dose rectally, sit and wait.
Nothing happened.
Third Doctor's Visit - ???
I just want this to be over so I can move on. My husband has been so supportive, coming to every doctor's visit and sonogram that he can get off work for. But his hovering has made me more and more nervous that things are not going as we'd hoped.
I'm struggling to maintain a "I'm ok, It's going to be ok" facade for the few friends I told and the "nothing is wrong, business as usual" face for everyone else who doesn't know. It really really sucks.
I don't like talking about babies, I can't even watch commercials with moms and their kids without tearing up and I'm typically the tomboyish one who is tough about these things. I actually found out my pregnancy was nonviable right before I got on a plane for a business trip. I don't think I've given myself the time to grieve but how can I when it's still inside me!
I anticipated that getting pregnant may end in a miscarriage, but I didn't anticipate it would go on this long or affect me this much.

[mommyheiress]

Please, if someone can give some words of encouragement it would be so appreciated, I feel lost and all alone.

These words are too familiar to me because I often feel the same. DH & I have 2 children but have lost 2 as well. We are currently TTC#3 and I am terrified to test, terrified to know...I don NOT want a BFN but im so confused by my body
Im not sure waht to do.

Im going to tell you much like I tell myself....DO NOT GIVE UP! Please continue to find peace however you can rather meditation,prayer, family, etc. We all have stories that Im sure none of us want to experience but we are also a group of women with Hope and Dermination or you wouldn't be on this site. Keep trying! Ill send lots of prayer your way. Be encouraged!

Dwan
Aaron DH 9 years
Nadjah DD 8 years
Akerah DD 5 years
MC#1 3/09
MC#2 3/10
TTC#3