Have had two miscarriages

[mommies rule]

I have already had two miscarriages - one at 8 weeks and one at 11 weeks. My doc said both were normal and there was nothing to be concerned about. But I'm scared to try again and get disappointed. Anyone BTDT?

[jodyramer]

Do not get discouraged! I had two miscarriages before finally giving birth to my first child (who is now 7). My doctor did a few tests for reccuring miscarriages. He did an endometrial biopsy and a Hysterosalpingogram. The Endometrial Biopsy determined that my uterus was not preparing itself for pregnancy and therefore would cause a miscarriage. Because of that test he was able to determine that I needed to use progesterone suppositories to keep my pregnancies. The good thing was that I was able to get pregnant on my own, therefore, the progesterone was not considered a fertility drug, so my insurance covered it! I used it for both of my pregnancies and have two beautiful, healthy children. If we have more, I will certainly do the same thing. Good luck, it is certainly worth mentioning to your Doctor!

[mcki]

Saying I'm sorry is never enough. I just had a miscarriage @ 6 weeks. But I have been blessed with 4 children. It doesn't make this miscarriage any easier. My only advice is to try again with your drs approval and take it easy. I will pray for you.

[jshaye]

I under stand being scared. We lost are baby boy due to a stillbirth in 05. It was the hardest thing I have ever been through. I told my husband as I lay in the hospital I didn't want to try again, and if he wanted,and I would understand he could leave me. That is how low I was. But today we have the sweetest little girl in the world. I know you will be scared there is no way around it but it can happen. I pray that everything works out for you and your family.

[jenn_0629]

Give yourself adequate time to heal and try again, if you are emotionally ready to do so. If you do decide to try again, be sure to go to the doctor immediately and explain your circumstances. Don't be afraid to ask questions. Find out what you can do to keep the life inside of you as healthy as possible!

[caro73]

I have also had two miscarriages. The first one at 6 weeks, the second at 12 weeks. I was told by my doctor "don't worry, you will have children" , time past. I have now two beautiful and healthy little girls of 4 and 2 years old. So, don't worry, you will have children...just be patiente!!

[ra11en]

I'm so sorry for your losses! Nothing to be concerned about...dumb doctors just don't understand.

Give yourself time to heal emotionally and physically. My husband and I were pregnant with twin boys, and went into premature labor at 23 weeks. They were unable to survive unfortunately. I have a good OB, so he determined what caused the premature labor and prevented that from happening again when we decided to try again. I had to have surgery on my cervix at 14 weeks, and complete bed rest for the duration of the pregnancy. I will have to go through this everytime we have a child.

I opted to wait about 6 months between losing my sons and trying again. It was the hardest time in my life. Now, we have a beautiful daughter that went the full 40 weeks gestation.

Best of luck to you and your partner. Try to take it as easy as you can!!

[alysha21]

Im sorry about your losses! I have to agree with Ra11en about the doctor and giving yourself time to heal. I have had two miscarriages and i have two beautiful little girl. And i'm pregnant now i'm only a couple of weeks and im scared because i all way get pregnant then ill loose my baby. Then get pregnant again like a year or so later that baby i will care for the whole nine months. With my last child which is 7 months, My doctor that i go to they really care about there patients and they ran alot of test on me to see why i keep having miscarriages and my test for lupus came back positive. With lupus you can get blood clots. When you have blood clots your body is not getting enough blood.So thats why i kelpt having miscarriges becuase i was having blood clots and the baby was not getting enough blood. So i had to take some hormone pills for six weeks and I had to give myself shot once a day then twice a day so i would not get blood clots. Its hurt alot when i first started and i got to the piont where i wanted to give up. I did not want to take the shots any more. But with the help and support of my loving husband i get threw my pregnacy and i had my baby at 37 weeks. Shes a healthy like girl. So sweety you need to get over the miscarriage first. Then if you want try again when you know your ready, then go for it Just keep the man upstairs in your heart and mind and keep praying and trust me he heres your prayer and he'll send you a baby. Good luck to you and your parnter My God Bless u

[tangerine]

I'm Sorry For Your Losses. I Had 3 Miscarriages My Dr. Did Test And I Had Blood Clots. I Gave My Self 1 Shot A Day And Now We Have A Beautiful 9 Month Old Little Boy. All I Can Say Is Hang In There. Good Luck And Don't Lose Hope.

[fsmurfy]

I am 31 and had a miscarriage 2 years ago and was devastated, my husband and I finally decided to try again and instantly became pregnant. I went to the dr and had an internal ultrasound where they discovered I was 4 wks and 2 days, only gestational sac was seen so they scheduled me for a follow up 3 wks later. I went to have my 2nd ultrasound yesterday and discovered still only a gestational sac and nothing else, they also said it measured 6 wks. They drew blood and told me to come back in 2 days for follow up bloodwork and then the dr will see me 2 days later. I have one more day until i go back and am already devastated preparing myself for the heart wrenching news again. My husband says to try to think positive, but I know that in 3 wks time, the ultrasound only shows 2 wks have passed as well as there should be a yolk sac and fetal pole. Why me is all i keep asking and will I ever be able to carry to term? Please, if someone can give some words of encouragement it would be so appreciated, I feel lost and all alone.