Okay i have 2 babies right now. a 21 month old and a 6 month old. after my first, getting pregnant was the most terrifying idea to me. when i messed up on my birth control I was depressed my whole pregnancy, I kept worrying about how would i feel and how would i handle 2 babies under two. after i had the baby my mom was here for a week, and when she was about to leave i was freaking out. i think i cried for a week straight after she left from how scared i was to raise two babies. but about a month later i was overly confident in myself. so for the past 3 months i've been thinking i want another baby. But i'm not sure if thats what i really want or if thats my sleep deprivation talking. I know i'm going to hate pregnancy, i am not one of those women who like it for them self. it a beautiful thing on someone else, not for me. I know i can do child birth, i think child birth is the most exciting part of this miracle. But I dont know if i'm crazy. I really want some advice.

I just wanted to brag for a moment about my smart little girl and I didn't know where else to share it!

Today at daycare, while I was talking to her teacher, my DD was scribbling on a piece of paper next to me waiting to leave. Meanwhile, the teacher was changing another child and a third child was calling out "puppy, puppy, puppy!" I asked the teacher if he was reminding my DD to grab her stuffed puppy because we were leaving and my DD is the youngest in the class at 17mo. The teacher said that he is also very attached to a stuffed puppy of his own.

Moments later, my DD puts down her pen, goes to the little boy's cubby, grabs his puppy, and walks it over to give to him. Then she came back and happily went back to scribbling on her paper.

I don't know how smart that actually is, but I was proud of her! And so I had to brag :)

I was wonderin if anybody has a recipe for pumpkin crisp dessert, I have been looking on the Internet for one an the only one I found it required yellow cake mix and doesn't look anything like the dessert that I remember. Its suppose to look apple crisp but pumpkin crisp instead...any help would be appreciated. Thanks!!!

I am back. Though Im sure noone really remembers me but I had a beautiful baby girl in July. Ill post updated pictures in a little while. Ok so I am on BC. Yaz is the brand. Been on it since 4 weeks after her birth. Ive taken it everyday same time never have missed. I have 4 alarms set around the house to remind me everyday. The first two months I got what I thought was AF it was more blackish than red or pink (TMI im sorry but needed to explain) then nothing for the next two months. I would get the cramping and all things that go along with it but no discharge. My DH and I have been intimate MAYBE 3 or 4 times in the past 4 months. Ive denied him for the past two because I didnt get my "period" per say and Paperwork said to stop pills if missed period. But I read that some women do not get thier periods for weeks, to months, to years after giving birth. Am I worrying over nothing? Should I take a preg test? I was soooo careful I didnt want another baby right away thats why I denied him so much, those few times were out of pity...(i hate to say that) the paperwork also said that if the pills are taken correctly should be 99% effective. *sighs* I dont know what to do....if i am preg I by all means wont abort it or give up for adoption but is it selfish of me not to want another one right now? I am enjoying all the new things my little girl is doing and Im scared Ill miss it all when Im pregnant and then taking care of a newborn. *sigh*

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I am just wondering if anyone here is teaching their toddlers to read? There has been a lot of talk about it lately.

My 2 year old loves the Monki See Monki Doo DVD's. There are currently 3 DVD's available. The first one teaches body parts and first words, the second one teaches colors and their newest is all about shapes. We have the first two and whenever they come on my baby stops what she is doing to watch them. They have nice music and lots of cute little poems in there. They are really educational but a lot of fun. I can't believe how fast my baby was picking up stuff from watching them. She loves to sing the Monki See Monki Doo song.

I thought anyone that wants to find a good video series would enjoy these as well. We love them!

You can check out the website and even watch a sample of each video on their website.

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Which do you prefer;usenext, or Torrents for your P2p downloads?

So my daughter is going to be 10 weeks tomorrow and i think she is already getting teeth! She drools non stop and is always chewing on her hand or suckig on her tongue and shes been getting a little bit fussy! I'm not sure if she is teething or not, does anyone have any ideas???

SO my daughter is going to be 10 weeks tomorrow and i think she is already getting teeth! She drools non stop and is always chewing on her hand or suckig on her tongue and shes been getting a little bit fussy! I'm not sure if she is teething or not, does anyone have any ideas???

Brianna Nicole 10lbs 3oz! Yes i said 10lbs! And i gave birth to her vaginally! I checked into the hospital on 9/11 about 10:30pm i was doing pretty good i was 4 to 5cm and 85% effaced. I did pretty good with the pain for a little while but then around 2am i decided i needed something for the pain so they gave me something in my IV, it was very nice for about an hour, it really helped me sleep. Well after that wore off i was really feeling it so i gave in and got the epidural. That was all fine and dandy for about an hour but then all of a sudden it stopped working on my left side, they had me lay on my left side trying to get the medicine to go to that side but that didn't work. I really thought i was dying at that point, and let me tell you i was definately letting everyone know how much pain i was in! I think i scared all the women on the labor and delivery floor. So finally they had another guy come in and take out the first epidural and put in a new one. Let me tell you it was the difference between night and day! I couldn't feel a thing i was in heaven! The only problem with that was that when it came time to start pushing i couldn't feel anything so i couldn't tell if i was doing it right, so they had to turn down the dosage. Then they brought in a mirrior which helped A LOT! Plus i had my babys dad, my mom, his mom, my grandma, and 2 of my sisters in the delivery room with me so i have TONS of emoional support which was great! So then at 12:11pm my little bundle of joy was in my arms! Now here we are almost 10 weeks later and she is getting so big already! My mom told me not to blick because she will grow up so fast and let me tell you she was right!
Well congrats to all the new mommies out there and to all you others that still have some waiting to do, enjoy it now! Theres not much sleeping once they get here and your belly with never be the same again!!! LOL Good luck all!

I'm the father, the mom is about two months away. She's in pretty good spirits these days considering but has a long history of depression. Fortunately she is seeing a therapist beginning next week that specializes in depression and pregnancy. Right now she has a lot of issues she needs to sort out regarding her family especially. Her dad doesn't know, her mom and sister aren't very supportive and the relationship she has with her family is very strained to begin with (for starters she speaks to her mom in deliberate broken English and her mom speaks back in deliberate broken Korean which itself is a pretty good indicator of a broken relationship). I listen to her when she talks about how sad it makes her that she doesn't have the support from her mom she feels she deserves and that other people have. I tell her I love her, she has my support and my empathy but that I really just don't know what to say. So I encouraged her to see a therapist and I'm glad that she has now agreed to.

But I'm very concerned about post-partum. She very much wants a natural birth but there may be complications that could end up with us having a hospital birth (instead of a water birth at the birthing center which is our ideal) and I know that these sort of things further add to PPD often because the mother feels she somehow failed or didn't live up to expectations or that she didn't have the fulfilling birth experience she had expected. Of course I'm hoping for everything to go as perfectly well as can be expected (I've been to enough classes by now I do know NOTHING goes exactly as planned).

Mostly my point in posting this is for advice on what I can do to help her, and to recognize any symptoms or what to be concerned about and what not to. I do know when she's "feeling blue" she wears it visibly. When she gets in a depressed state she often withdraws and often doesn't want the be touched which goes against my own instinct to want to hold and hug her. Right now she gladly accepts my physical affection when she's feeling blue, especially when her mom calls (she doesn't answer, it still makes her blue) and when she thinks about her own childhood. But I remember many times before she was pregnant when she's angrily snapped at me with a pointed "don't touch me" command.

I hope and pray she doesn't go into a bad funk, but I am worried she may be the type to get severe PPD or even PPP (Post Partum Psychosis) so I'm trying to get any and all advice I can for what I can do now so I'm better prepared to cope with it should the need arise in a couple months.

If you suffered PPD what helped you? If you know any good books or articles on the subject, etc.

I am also considering scheduling a session with her therapist myself not to specifically discuss her of course (her confidentiality with the therapist should obviously be maintained) but for coping with my own feelings and ways I can help.

So any advice or comments or experiences welcomed. Thanks.

Hi ladies,
In case any of you have Blue Cross Blue Shield insurance, I found a great tool on their website called Baby Yourself. Its a program that offers phone support with a registered nurse who you can talk to about anything that is going on with your pregnancy in between dr. visits. You are assigned 1 nurse who follows up with you and checks in to make sure everything is going ok. I was relieved to find such a great hotline that I could call besides feeling like i'm always bugging my Dr. office. Plus, they send you gifts and information to help you along. The best part is- it's free! Check with your health care provider to see if they offer a program like this!
Good luck and healthy babies!

Hello, I am a new dad and stressed out.

When I was taking my 2 day old baby to the car with my wife and the nurse there was a idling flower delivery van in the area that was just putting a heavy car exhaust smell into the air. My newborn had to inhale this. As soon as we got close to the car we realized this exhaust. I quickly put the baby in the car and took off but my baby boy is so small. It just scares me that he had to inhale the nasty fumes.

I hope I am just going to a paranoid phase but I felt I should of control the situation better to perhaps tell the nurse lets bring the baby back inside until the air clears.

this one from thinkbabynames.com

Yesterday it gave me "Goodyear Eagle"

This one was worse ... much worse ... (attached screen shot)



I also got "Rune Claus" I guess Santa's evil twin ...

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