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I'm Blogging This

By Daddy Daze on Monday, March 31, 10:50 am EDT

As one of my nine regular readers, you probably know that I consider pretty much anything to be fair game for the blog. Heck, I even have a T-shirt that says, "I’m blogging this." If the kids do something funny or touching or gross, I tell you about it. Sometimes I even post a photo. Or a video. You know my kids’ names and what they look like. I share my experiences as their father with you, freely.

But they have no say in the matter what so ever.

I realize that I’m the adult here, and that I make the decision. But is it right? Do I really have the right to tell you about the huge turd William made at the dance studio, or the time Grace fell down the stairs and went unconscious? At what point do they have the right to say, "You know what, dad? Enough. No more." I don’t know if the line can/should be drawn when/if they can demand it verbally, or if I should really draw it for them.

Sometimes it’s really fun for me to share my stories with you. Sometimes it’s theraputic. Sometimes, maybe, I can help another parent somewhere else in the world deal with their situation(s) just a little more effectively. Sometimes, however, I feel like I’ve turned them into modern-day Dionne quintuplets, and that I should stop immediately. I don’t know.


Member Comments
I hear where you're coming
3/31/2008 at 1:05 pm
I hear where you're coming from. My daughter came home not too long ago and was upset because one of her friends found my blog (my daughter told her I had one, but didn't know the name of it, the kid found it anyway) and read a story about her that I thought was funny, but she found embarassing. It's a tough line because I blog for myself, but it effects them.


You know, that is a really
3/31/2008 at 1:58 pm
You know, that is a really tough call. Maybe as the kids are getting older you will have to start being more generic about the events that you share. At least when they are particularly personal or embarassing. Who knows, one kid wouldn't care and another will decide that you have ruined there whole world. The chances of their friends or classmates making a habit out of reading your blog is unlikely so I wouldn't worry too much. Maybe you can just suggest that they don't give their friends too many details about the blog so as not to peak an interest. If they don't want their friends to read it then they shouldn't tell their friends about it!


Tell me about it
3/31/2008 at 5:23 pm
For my blog (and book) I decided to keep my children's names hidden -- just as Child No.1, No.2 and No.3. But it wouldn't be hard for people at school to work it out. In actuality, that possibility moderates what I write about. But we are potentially playing with fire here.


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cbs
Good point
3/31/2008 at 6:05 pm
I wish I had a blog when my daughter was a baby and toddler so now I could have so much of her young years documented. I still don't have one and I often think starting one, but the main reason I don't is because she hates it when I tell stories about her. I fear her not telling me things because she thinks I will tell everyone. We are moving into tween stage and I want to keep the lines of communication open for as long as possible; it's already like pulling teeth to get info out of her now. I do sometimes feel sorry for the kids being blogged about, eventually they're going to read all about themselves (and all the "cyberbullies" out there getting the info). So for now I will be addicted to the several blogs I read and just make my comments here and there. Does that make me a hypocrite? Because I do love hearing everone elses stories!


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Renee
I have an invention know of any companies to bring it to life??
3/31/2008 at 7:16 pm
Okay, so I always have crazy inventions in my mind which I know if I just had a company who I could sell the idea to (I also need to know how to patent it) it would be "the next best thing". Two ideas which someone already beat me to - the mesh baby bjorn - it lived it my mind before they made it a reality:) The backpack which turns into stroller - same thing cept it was my husbands. Does anybody know of a reputable company that either buys ideas or can create prototypes??? Your thoughts and thanks!!! Renee


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Melissa
You're such a great dad and
3/31/2008 at 9:24 pm
You're such a great dad and your blogs are so fun it's hard to imagine your kids being unhappy about it. With family far away, it's been a great way to keep up with what you guys are up to. Interestingly I find that the 20 somethings I know have a completely different idea of privacy. They post things about themselves on Facebook and My Space that I could never imagine sharing with strangers. They think I'm stuffy. Good God - me - really!!!! So I guess I wonder if they will feel invaded. The next generation may just except it as normal.


They will tell you
4/1/2008 at 1:09 am
My sons are 21, 19 and 10. I hardly mention my oldest sons cause its different when they grow up. But son nr. 2 googled himself. His name is rare so my blog came up and he asked me to remove him. So I did and on my current blog I changed his name. Because, being the proud mother, every now and then I HAVE to mention him. Son nr. 3 is very proud to be on my blog. I guess some day that will change.


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RC
I've thought a lot about this...
4/2/2008 at 2:34 pm
And have tried to avoid using my son's name. I just call him Little Dude. That being said, most of my friends and family know about my blog, so could his friends find it someday and could some of it embarrass him? Probably. But I find that most of the stories aren't embarrassing. And I sense that as he gets older, the blog will evolve into more of a generic family blog/personal blog for me, rather than a place to mark his milestones/stories. I think we have to be careful and be open and honest in our families, too, so nothing we blog comes as a surprise. As children get older, some moments aren't meant to be shared outside of family.


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