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Mommy Doesn't Drink Here Anymore

By Marcella at Parenting on Friday, June 26, 1:27 pm EDT

 

A lot of us make jokes about Mommy needing a martini, but for Rachael Brownell, author of Mommy Doesn’t Drink Here Anymore, the joke turned out to be pretty dark.

After having twin girls, Brownell found herself a frazzled, busy mom juggling a family and career. To help take the edge off, she made a glass of white wine an afternoon ritual. Soon, one glass became four or five, and it wasn’t long until a box of wine lasted her only a couple of days.

Brownell’s book is rife with accounts of her mood swings, sex problems with her husband and vomiting at the twins’ school. What’s unusual is that a nagging feeling, not a DUI or other dramatic hit-bottom moment, made her admit her problem. After telling her brother about her drinking, she starts Alcoholics Anonymous the same night. “I know something is very wrong here,” she writes. “And I think my drinking might be making it worse.”

The book scores points for its honesty and dark humor, and you’ll finish it in a pool- or beachside afternoon. But I wanted to hear more about how Brownell’s alcoholism affected her family, especially her daughters and mother, who was an alcoholic herself. Still, its diary-like style will keep the pages turning, even if you’re a mom who has never touched a drop.


Member Comments
Woodape's picture
Woodape
You can get wine in a box?
6/29/2009 at 9:30 am
You can get wine in a box? What country is this?


Anonymous's picture
Anonymous
I just heard you on a PBS
10/4/2009 at 8:47 am
I just heard you on a PBS radio interview. I too drink wine everyday, although I've been able to wean myself to a later hour instead of directly after work. It used to be scotch, bourbon, brandy, whatever could kill whatever is going on inside me. Full-time job, divorced, bipoar child, no family support or understanding, in fact no communicaton regarding my needs with anyone, etc. I thought I was alone. Now I know I'm not. What a relief. What a relief. I'm not alone. A weight has been lifted. Thank you for coming forward. People like me need people like you.


Anonymous528's picture
Anonymous528
To Anonymous
10/7/2009 at 1:56 pm
Anonymous, I want you to know that there are lots of us just like you. Some just try to keep it to there self. I feel the same way, but know I know for sure there 2 of us. If you ever need to talk you can always blog here on parenting.com Look forward to your blog. You should name in Anonymous so its easier to find...


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