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A Car Seat Conundrum

By Maura at Parenting on Wednesday, July 1, 6:18 pm EDT

 

A recent study in the British Medical Journal caught me up short: It said that kids should be kept in rear-facing car seats until the age of 4. I pictured my own preschooler in a rear-facing car seat: The image that came to mind was of Wyatt practically folded in half, with nowhere for his on-the-verge-of-gangly legs to go.

At the same time, I could see why the BMJ findings made sense; what I couldn’t figure out was what I, or the mom of any little kid, should do with this info -- especially since I was pretty sure that the American Academy of Pediatrics, official recommendation on when to do the car seat flip-flop is when a child is at least a year old and weighs at least 20 pounds. So I called up Ben Hoffman, a pediatrician in New Mexico who’s on the AAP’s Committee on Injury, Violence, and Poison Protection and who’s also a nationally certified passenger safety technician (read: car seat fitter).

Dr. Hoffman gave me a quickie synopsis of the British study that caused me to regard the concept of car seat graduation in a whole new light: "Most parents tend to think about it as a right of passage,” he said. "What the study highlights is that it’s really not: Every time you move up, you lose protection.” He cited another study, published last year in the Journal of Injury Prevention, that showed that kids between 1 and 2 are more than five times more likely to be injured forward-facing than rear-facing. He went on to explain that when a child (or anyone!) is rear-facing, the force of an impact is spread over the entire back, so there’s less chance of serious injury. On a tot who’s sitting face-forward, all the impact would be concentrated where the harness straps of the car seat are touching his body. Plus, his head would be thrown forward; if he’s sitting backward, the seat would cradle his head and neck.

Finally, he underscored that the AAP’s 1 year/20-pound guidelines are absolute minimums: In other words, the point is not that at a year old you should turn a child around, but rather that a child should be at least a year old and weigh at least 20 pounds before you do it.

It all made sense, but to my knowledge there are few backward-facing car seat designed to accommodate the typical 4-year-old, which brought me back to my original question: What exactly do I do with this knowledge? The bottom line, Dr. Hoffman told me, is to keep your child rear-facing for as long as possible, up to the weight and height limits listed on his car seat.

If you’re interested in purchasing a seat that does allow preschoolers to sit backward, there are a few models on the market. Orbit’s Toddler Car Seat (shown, $360) is designed to be rear-facing up to 35 pounds. And Graco just came out with My Ride 65 ($159.99) that’s safe for rear-facing kids up to 40 pounds.

Meanwhile, I’m relieved that Wyatt’s fine in his forward-facing seat: I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t have taken a reversal sitting down.


Member Comments
peanutjelly's picture
peanutjelly
My 7-month son is about 90%
7/6/2009 at 4:02 pm
My 7-month son is about 90% for weight and length. His car seat (Maxi Cosi Priori) supports rear-facing use until 35 lbs and 36 inches. If he grows at the same rate, he will be too tall for rear facing when he reaches 2.25 years of age (for weight, about 2.5 years). Also, while I am all for safety, but I wonder if he'll sit straight starring at the rear window (or mirror) for longer ride.


Carolyn Carlson's picture
Carolyn Carlson
Both my kids were rearfacing to 3.5 years old
7/6/2009 at 8:00 pm
My two kids rode rear-facing until they were 3.5 years old. I used a seat that was rated to 35 pounds, and had a 5 point harness. My children were perfectly safe and comfortable sitting cross-legged in their rear-facing seats. Today, at 9 and 7 years old, my kids STILL ride in 5 point harnesses (using the Britax Husky). Car seat usage is absolutely non-negotiable in my family, and my kids have never questioned it.


Karen's picture
Karen
Same here Carolyn
7/6/2009 at 11:38 pm
My 7 y/o is still happy in his Husky and my 3 y/o is still rearfacing. After almost 20 yrs of working as an EMT and seeing the results of collisions on children of varying ages, you bet your life I will have the absolute SAFEST seat and position that money can buy.


Jennifer's picture
Jennifer
Which car seats are your
8/27/2009 at 12:44 pm
Which car seats are your children in? I am preparing to transition my 1 year old out of his infant seat and into another seat. I am hoping to find a seat that will allow him to rear face as long as possible. He is a tiny little thing so I'm not too worried about the weight restrictions. Thanks.


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Anonymous
Re: A Car Seat conundrum
9/15/2009 at 2:14 pm
I kept my son (and intend to keep my second) rear-facing until he was 2. I understand safety fears but I would feel uncomfortable keeping them turned around beyond that as it inhibits the same level of communication/interaction as when they're forward facing (in my mind anyway - I wonder if there's any research on this matter?) We spend so much time in our cars in this country that it's important we continue to build on our relationships and communication skills while we're on the road. There are other safety issues as important as rear-facing carseats - how about talking on the cellphone or being sleep-deprived (as many parents of small children are) or multi-tasking/drinking and eating while driving. We could put our children in a bubble in the name of safety but we all know that wouldn't be good for them. Let's not isolate our children in the name of safety for another 2 years of their lives.


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