My husband and I have decided not to share the name we've chosen until we know the sex. We just think it's an appropriate time and it gives us time to enjoy talking about what it will be like to have a ____ or ____ before friends and relatives throw their two cents into the mix. Honestly, though, my husband and I won't care what other people think of the names we've chosen. It's no one's decision but our own. Btw, a guy I work with has a son named Oliver. I think it's a great name! :o)