Hi i too am a pasty white girl married to a very good looking islander(at least i think hes good looking), we have a beautiful 20 mo son and a beautiful 6 yo. my hubby is Guamanian, but you have a advantage, your in-laws speak their native laungage mine do not, neither does my hubby which means that it is harder to teach my kids about the other half of their heritage (sigh) its kinda depressing especially since to my hubby thats not that big of a deal.