First, I'll start by clarifying that I am not a parent as my "parenting magazine" subscription would imply. I have been a nanny for the same family for 3 years......I've watched their 15 month old turn 4 and helped them welcome their second child. The idea of recording moments/memories is important. Especially in those moments when a parent is not directly involved. We started our "notebook" to help us stay on the same page with typical daily items (ate well, changed diaper at 3p kinds of dialogue) but nap time turned into writing time for me. We often look back now and giggle at the things that were mentioned. "fought her afternoon nap for about 15 minutes, was quiet for 2, called me up to get her water, called me up to tuck her blankets back in, called me up to be sure her toes were covered. Finally calmed. Slept for 40 minutes." Even those times that seemed stressful and trying prove themselves to be quality memories of a strong will and determination. Write write write! :) And I am going to get on my soap box for just a moment. If there are any other nannies (or people thinking of becoming a nanny) reading this.......please please please love the family/families you work for. Have a genuine respect for them and a genuine alignment in child rearing philosophy. If you don't.....you won't be happy for long. And the amount you are paid does not equal happiness! I've been there. I chose a lower salary from my "day time gig" and to supplement my income (with the following system: http://moneymakingsystem101.com ) BECAUSE I'M HAPPY. Families, love your child care provider. I mean really really feel completely confident/comfortable with your child care provider. And have high expectations. A good fit is out there! I'll be done now! :) Leann J Stanoch