My friend with four kids all under 10 uses the day for herself! I mean, seriously, no kids. No special day or activity, just no kids! It's genius! I mean really, it is all about mom, isn't it. It's our day. Why shouldn't we get to do whatever we want. Just try not to enjoy it too much or you could have some hurt feelings (at least fake it if you must). Remember those blissful, carefree days of yore? Back when you could just hop in the car and go where you wanted with no extra baggage or diaper bag. But alas, it's been deemed that you get one day annually now in which to recapture that bliss and really enjoy yourself. So, go enjoy yourself, really!