I actually checked to see if Daniel was alive last night, because Ethan cried at 2:30 AM and Daniel did not leap out of bed and run into his room to check on him. Which is what he usually does. And I'm not exaggerating with the leaping. He's actually hit me before in his haste to get out of bed and take care of his kid. Which totally works for me. I always tell people that we play a zone defense on childcare. And when Daniel's home, his zone pretty much encompasses the ENTIRE condo. Ethan's only my responsibility if he's physically touching me. :)