There is nothing wrong with pretending--it is how kids "try on" all the possibilities of life. My daughter loved princessy dresses, and tiaras and jewelry and heels, and...you know the drill. Now, she is almost 16, in all honors and AP classes, loves math and science, wouldn't be caught dead in a frilly dress, sees no point in make-up or dressing up--actually about a year ago she was with my mom (she hates shopping) and my mom stopped at the make-up counter. My kid was none too happy and said to my mother--"I don't know why you want make-up. I am happy just the way I am, and I think everyone else should be happy just the way they are." I think she has her head on straight. But I kinda miss the princess days.