I'm 2 and a half months into parenting two kids. (My first is 2.5). It's hard, sure. And oh yes, the sleep factor is pretty brutal in the beginning. But nursing is MUCH easier than I expected... the first and I read or watch a movie or she brings me toys. People are always willing to help you out, so take advantage of that. It's like juggling, but in some ways, (ok as they're young, most ways), it's easier every day. Oh, and my second didn't have a name til I delivered. Don't feel bad... once she comes, you'll forget that.