I ask myself "What was I thinking" practically every night that goes by that I toss and turn in bed trying to find a comfortable position... as I watch my husband sleep like a baby! I'm 9 months pregnant with my second. My first is 20 months old and is all boy!! This baby will not come.. due in 4 days, yet no sign of thinning or dilation. What?!! Is this punishment for something I did in a past life? I can't remember what it was like to be pregnant with my first, so maybe it was just like this. When I really stop to think about it though, I'm so happy! I'll be a mother of two boys!! I can't imagine what they'll be like, but if I use my current as judge, they'll be just like the definition of boys on their toy box "A noise with dirt on it." I also understand the dilemma with not having anything ready. I've forgotten what a newborn needs. Oh yeah, a place to sleep and maybe some diapers..don't forget the onesies and the receiving what? I feel you. And if one more person asks me if I'm having twins, I might just... Aside from that... pure JOY!!