My daughter gave up napping at home completely when she was 2.5. She still slept at school (sometimes), but for us it was a 2 hour battle that wasted the whole afternoon. People told us she was manipulating us, and that she still needed her nap, but to us it was not worth the hassle. I might also add that it took her a good hour to fall asleep at night during those times and she was fine energywise during the day. So hang in there, you will get through it all. She's 7 now and it's all just a distant memory. Although it is (a small) part of the reason there is only one child in our household!