Regarding all the complaining about men not holding the door for women. Do you ladies hold the door for men when you walk through it first? When I was in college this was a pet peeve of mine. Women seemed to be incapable of holding the door for other people, men and women. The only people who ever held the door for me, as a man, were other men. Granted, it wasn't %100 of the time, lots of guys never held the door. But I never had a girl hold the door for me, not once. And I followed many of them through the doors on my way to class.