It is unfortunate that most of the boys ran on by, and great that one stopped to help. But I believe in packing and planning in a way that I can manage by myself (was there an elevator?). I know this wasn't your point, and you acknowledged it by admitting to feeling free to bring whatever will fit into the "gigantic suitcase," but I felt like it should be stated outright. I believe both that people should help others, and that people should be able to manage on their own.