I think it's wonderful that you're choosing your children. I have a Master's degree, but sometimes I think that makes it even easier for my husband to depend on me for income and not take as much initiative to be a good earner on his own. I would love to start a family and be able to stay home to take care of my (future) children. You can be happy that you are doing what you want, which is being there for your kids. That's just as big an accomplishment as any other job.