I wrestle with the idea of quitting my job (though my CPA husband says no way can we survive without it). In the end, I think that even if someday he makes enough for us to afford it, I won't. The loss of job identity and personal financial security it a big deterrent. However, there is not enough quality childcare available for everyone with children to work. Stay at home parents are a vital part of our economy. It's just a shame they aren't recognized and rewarded as such. You are doing an important job for your family and for everyone else. Pat yourself on the back, buy a guilt-free latte, and read those kiddos another book. You are awesome!