to it doesn't make sense...my daughter is 5 and will start kindergarden this year..i'm afraid..so i decided it would be best for her and myself to put her in pre-k..so she can get use to the routine of it all..i don't think taking your child out of school because you can't handle it is the best idea..not to say your feelings don't matter..i just don't think that's fair to your son..at some point we have to let go...do like 1 of the other mothers..volunteer, go have lunch w/ your child, come during recess..we have to give our kids a chance to grow and learn that everybody's not like mommy..i think we owe that to our kids..we can teach them some things..but they have to learn how to get up and brush their little hands by their self...but i respect your thoughts..that's the love of a mother