I have kind of run into the same thing just in a little bit of a different way. I have people tell me all these horrible stories about how thie person or that person had a miscarrage or that happened in the delivery room or that happened. For me being pregnant to hear those things is like watching a horror movie. I do not want to hear these things and I do not think that anyone else that is pregnant wants to hear these things ever. Why do people feel the need to share those kind of stories. I am prolly like you, I have thought about what I am suppose to be doing while I am pregnant so that I can do my best to have a happy and healthy baby every scenario has gone through my head of what could go wrong then I get these jerks that just confirm that one of the scenarios I have already thought about happened to someone else. I have a son already he is 13 he will be almost 14 when the baby is born. For me this is like my first time all over again. I do not remeber much about it. I can say this. Yeah my son was up alot at night for just a few days after he came home from the hospital. After the first few nights though he started to sleep through the entire night he did that at about 2 weeks old or so and never stopped. I really enjoyed his child hood and can not even begin to imagin what my life would be like if he had not been here. I know that I did alot of things in my life for him like go on to college and such. So I know that he helped me to be a better person as well as give me some of the best possible memories any one could ever ask for. Even though I do not know you I wish the very same things for you with your new child. I hope that all goes well and that you remeber like I have to that some people will always be their selves. Even though most people do not appericate it. They are just ignoranat of social etiquet and manners all around. Just pay them no mind.