My husband and I have been together 16 years and marrried 14. We do not have children and the thought of children never crossed or minds. Now, I am 36 and he is 40. The other day for the first time we brought up kids. I guess I should say that i brought up kids. I just put it out there. I am still really not sure if I want child(ren). My husband is and always has been a go with the flow kind of guy. If it makes me happy then so be it. I know that if we had a child he would be a wonderful and responsible father. I think that my friends are all have children or have had children; and every tells me what great parents we would be. I do think about being a parent. Especially around the Holidays or when my husband and I are just sitting around the house which is often. I never thought about if we are actually ready to have a child. Do you know if you are ever ready. If so, when? I guess I have always been waiting for that sign. Signed Should I?