Dear Sue Dont let these things overwhelm your emotions! I am sure you will be a mom soon enough. try to stay healthy, think positively, and dont overwhelm you body with pressure either.feeling and thinking positive goes a long way. I know it all sounds wishy washy but after doing psychology for the last 6 years, believe me, allow you peaceful side to keep your emotional downs at bay, take care of your body, let your mind and unconscience know what you want, and if you want to check things, go to your gyne, she or he can check that all is ok, also also ask her how your husband can check himself out because both are important in conception. there is no point in feeling down because your body isnt responding as fast as you expected or in a way you imagined it to. stay positive and take the necessary actions! i have every faith that u will be a happy mom, just dont be so hard on yourself! :) have some space for yourself to feel happy and calm, take a weekend break with your guy and spend some romantic time together, it helps to let your mind and body get calm enough to welcome conception. :)