This is what I've learned about choosing baby names: we are inspired by the Bible, travel, and peer pressure.
I recently discovered a story in USA Today that examined the most popular baby names by decade since 1890.
As someone who had to pick first and middle names for his two children,
I understand the fascination. One name my wife and I had loved since
college (Jackson), one was lifted from a friend's random anecdote
(Tanner), one was picked from a baby name book (Tate) and the last one
came in a deperate attempt to choose before the water broke (Owen).
In reviewing the names listed by decade, it becomes obvious where they
come from. Considering that John and Mary were the most popular names
from 1890-1920, it's clear that simple, status quo names were the
thing. We also relied on the Good Book for ideas, a trend that
continues today (Paul, Thomas, Jonah, Ruth, Joseph, Carl). During the
90s, Mary got kicked to the curb, and we became enamored with all the
girls that signed my yearbook with circles over their i's (Christina,
Jennifer, Stephanie, Melissa). And now with this millennium, we are
inspired by places we've been (Austin, Sydney, Brooklyn) and places we
know we're headed to (Destiny).
Parents-to-be in search of that perfect munchkin moniker should check the baby name section on Parenting.com. Beyond
the standard A-Z list, you can review the themed lists (like action
heroes? Learn about the origins of names like Indiana, Conan,and
Maverick) and pick based on any cultural and ethnic heritage you can
think of (from Aboriginal to Zimbabwean).
While some of us opt for an out-of-the-box name, we are largely
creatures of habit and victims of trends. "Parents in the United States
are increasingly sensitive to the change in frequency of a name in
recent time," states the
USA Today article. It will be interesting to see the name chart in another 10 years, and if there are more Baracks and less Georges.
My birthday’s a marker of a kind, one that impels me to stop for a
moment and marvel at where I am right now, where I’ve been, and the
exciting conclusion that there’s no telling where it’s all going. This
year, as I look forward, there is one, huge, bigger-than-ever thought, and moment, before me. It stops me in my tracks.
I had around a three-hour face to face meeting with Leah and Eric on Saturday. As their adviser, the scariest part of the current situation is that they don’t find it as distressing as I do: Leah is USED to debt and it doesn't bother her. She openly shared that they are in denial.
The meeting was different than what we expected. We focused more on familial upbringing than dealing with the current issues. I am sure that Karen has an agenda that will work for us positively, but as of right now I’m not seeing a bigger picture.
