So confussed

[Lilmumma]

I am 17 I turn 18 in like 2 months me and my bf have been together pretty much since grade 7 and we are madly in love. We had sex for the first time like 2 months ago or something like that and I feel pregnant, I was doing everything right, taking hte birth multivitamins and tracking everything and it was all going well. I suffered from depression and anixiety for 4 and half years and mid last year I was admitted and got help for it all. I am on medication for it which I asked whether it was going to harm the baby and they told me no so i kept taking it. I was really stressed alot because my foster father was giving me a hard time and yelling a lot and well he is scared of me growing up basically. We have never got along since I moved here when I was 7. My foster parents are great they supported me a lot I didn't tell them about the pregnancy and stuff. But umm yeah I got to about 5 1/2 weeks pregnant and I lost the baby. My boyfriend is beside himself and he is angry at my dad and really upset. He told me it wants to try again soon. I am next firtile in 13 days but I am scared I will lose the baby again. I am so upset that i lost the baby my boyfriend and I had names and everything for the little bubs and we went shopping and looked at all the stuff we had talked about what kind of family we want how we will bring them up and everything that new parents should talk about. We did all that and I was taking care of myself and everything. I don't know what happen we think it was the stress but I am really scared because my best friend is dieing and I am stressed about that and I don't want to try again if I am just going to lose the baby again. I am confussed about all this and I want a kid with him. I am moving out of home soon into my own place and my bf and I are getting married next year but he really wants to try again and have this kid. I do too but I am really scared.

[H.Starr]

Ohhh boyyyy....

[MommyToConnor]

I'm 18 with a baby. It's hard work. My son is a very good baby, but mothering is no walk in the park some days! I had a good guy, too. I'm telling you that I've been there. Please wait. Wait even just a year. Even just finishing high school and getting your own place are huge steps. The goal is to have a child with your soon to be husband. Get ready for it now so within a year or two, you'll both be prepared.

[C.Carter]

My husband and I just recently decided to start family. which I am very excited about. We have been married for 2 and a half years. A year ago from Halloween we did have a miscarriage.. we honestly believe that it was becasue god was telling us that we werent ready.. But now its been a week after unprotected sex. I have brown discharge and light bleeding. this is not my normal period and I usually wouldnt have started for another 7 days bofore the light bleeding and brown discharge had started. Im not sure if I am prgenant or not. im not sure what to think. what do you guys think??

[kare.bear]

I firmly think that you need to give your body and mind a chance to heal before you try for another baby. Miscarriage is a loss and you need to give yourself time to greive. Don't just jump into having another child until you've had time to process this first one. If your b/f is pushing you to try again, tell him you need space to grieve. You are not a baby factory. You are a complicated young woman who has experienced a loss. Respect yourself enough to give yourself time to process your loss.