05-24-2009, 06:32 PM
hi i was wondering if i should have a party for my sons birthday this Tuesday or not? i was planing a small thing with about 10 people but now me and my husband dont see eye to eye, on some things. would it be wrong to to throw one? i have issues with having to have control of things, i am trying to work on it, and then something big comes up,(like sky first b-day) and i just go crazy, i no why i have to be in control of every thing, it come from my child hood and every thing that happened, so i no i will always be this way. but when i feel like iam losing control of things it seem to get worse, thats where were t right ow, he dose not want to have aparty and i do but i only want it to last for an hour and i dont want sky to have to open presents in front of every one, i want him to do that after the party, and no picture, i really hate it when people take pictures, i no iam weird, but i think thats ok, after all i had him, i should be able to say what i want right? mark my husband thinks i overboard, but he really dose not understand why iam so controlling, well thanks so much and if you can write back thanks!