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TolerTwinsMama
03-30-2009, 03:19 AM
Well I have always been a big boned girl with many curves I was 160 but 5'7" so it evened out the day I found out I was pregnant I was 180 pounds. I was pregnant with two boys and gave birth to them at 265 pounds on 12-12-08. They are my world.I am now around 220 I have a (flap kack) which is well loose skin that just hangs i have gone up in pants because i gotta stuff it in there.Gosh it is depressing I am only 20 years old and will I have this forever?? How do I lose it? I am trying everything I know nothing helps... I feel like everything is looking at it. I know I will never be back to normal but I would like to feel a little better about myself....My hubby says to stop worrying but I always do...I have also had weight problems and its worth it if I have to live with it I wouldn't trade these boys for a "perfect" body!!!!! But I would like to be able to play with my kids and not worrying about who is staring and laughing at me.....
Please help if you can....
TOLER TWINS MOMMY

lilseaotter
06-09-2009, 07:22 PM
I am also a mom of twins... Had my first son, then 19 months later had boy/girl twins. They are turning a year this month! I am feeling pretty down lately as well... I have managed to lose my baby weight, but my stomach is still huge. So, the rest of me looks back to normal, and I just look about 5 months prego! I feel like the more weight I lose, the more prego I look b/c the rest of me gets skinnier and my stomach measurement doesn't go down. I feel like I am destined to have it forever. Anyway, I know I shouldn't complain but I want to cry b/c I am going out tonight and wondering if someone is going to ask me if I am pregnant again. Anyway, I wanted to tell you that Weight Watchers is what helped me to get my weight back down to prebaby weight. It is realistic to do, even when you have little ones pulling at you. It was great for me... just thought I'd pass that along.

bornin03
06-23-2009, 07:26 PM
Deleting.....